The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. - Dorothy Nevill
Book recommendation The Memory Keeper's Daughter - Kim Edwards is a wonderful read; painfully accurate about the silences that can undermine a relationship. Sometimes leaving things unsaid can be destructive.
On another note, we are still here. In the UK. We are not on the boat! Iz pissed off.